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6934 South Western Avenue
PO Box 891320
Oklahoma City, OK 73139
Phone: 405-634-1439
Fax: 405-634-3753
Cary Bartlow

Cary Lee Bartlow

Monday, November 12th, 1945 - Sunday, March 24th, 2019
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Cary was born in Woodward, Oklahoma to Christopher Merle & Mildred Bartlow. At the age of 73, he died from pancreatic cancer peacefully in his home, surrounded by his beloved family and with an appreciation to the Lord for the generous gift of life. Cary is survived by the love of his life, wife Jennifer Jean (Neal) Bartlow of 48 years, his beloved sons and their families, Brad (Andrea), Camron (19), Callie (17mo) Bartlow and Scott (Brooke), Faith (6), Mae (3) Bartlow both of OKC. Also, his older brother Gene Steven Bartlow, Col., Ret. USAF (Karin) of Spring, TX, as well as, his many in-laws, relatives, colleagues & friends.

He obtained his B.S. in Mathematics, with minors in Physics and Chemistry, M.S. in Rehabilitation Counseling Psychology and Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology, which lead to a successful career with and in the State of Oklahoma. Cary pioneered a specialized vocation and started his own private rehabilitation counseling practice which impacted thousands of people’s lives.

Cary was a man of God who left a faith legacy for his family. He used his teaching gift at United Methodist Church of the Servant to help others find and follow Jesus. Cary’s deceased parents and many friends and relatives have welcomed him in Heaven. Well done my good and faithful Servant.

Cary enjoyed spending time with his family and friends. He loved to read, travel, and learn about history especially Civil War and WWII. He was an avid University of Oklahoma sports fan, and he followed the Dallas Cowboys, New York Yankees, Boston Celtics and the Oklahoma City Thunder teams. He would always enjoy a good steak or a Sam Adams and shrimp cocktail while watching any sporting event at home. He loved photography and scuba diving. He was a gun collector. He was a musician who loved to play the guitar.

Cary loved to laugh and make you smile. Dad loved to collect interesting canes around the world but he never needed them. In honor of this fun collection, we have created a floral arrangement using his canes to make you smile.

Funeral Services will be held on Friday, March 29, 2019 at 11:00am. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Stephenson Cancer Center in OKC.
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  • Memorial Service

    Friday, March 29th, 2019 | 11:00am
    Friday, March 29th, 2019 11:00am
    Church of the Servant
    14343 N. MacArthur Blvd.
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    The Rev. Tim Travers


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Rudy Sabedra

Posted at 11:11pm
Cary and I were classmates at Waynoka. He was always sharp and talented.
We played football together and I remember him being an outstanding tight end.
My condolences to Cary's family and I pray that he rest in peace.
Rudy Sabedra

Dick Faurot

Posted at 09:58pm
Have known Cary since grade school and he was certainly one of a kind. Witty, funny, intelligent, excelled at just about everything he put his mind to, or at least it seemed that everything came easy for him. At Waynoka he started on the football and basketball teams, was one of the fastest on the track team and excelled in the classroom. Looking through our yearbook, I had forgotten that he was also voted best dressed. Just goes to show his attention to detail along with his other attributes. Anyway, he was a great friend and will be sorely missed. Rest in Peace Bart, you have earned it. Dick Faurot

Rod and Delaine Kutz

Posted at 10:57am
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Ben B Buckland

Posted at 11:32pm
There will never be another Cary Bartlow. One of the most unique individuals I've ever had the pleasure of trudging the road with and a really funny guy. Rest easy Bart. Bennie B


Posted at 08:37pm
I am so sorry for the family’s loss. Deathbis one of the hardest trials to cope with. May you find comfort from the future promise recorded in Revelation 21:4 which says “he [God] will wipe out every tear from their eyes and death will be no more.” We can be certain God will fulfill the words from his word the Bible.

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