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6934 South Western Avenue
PO Box 891320
Oklahoma City, OK 73139
Phone: 405-634-1439
Fax: 405-634-3753
Sue Seay

Sue Carolyn Seay (Sutherland)

Friday, September 21st, 1934 - Thursday, June 18th, 2020
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Sue Carolyn Seay was born in Tulsa, Oklahoma, on September 21, 1934, to Harold and Mary Sutherland and left this earth for heaven on June 18, 2020.
Sue met the love of her life, Herb, in Tulsa, Oklahoma and they were married on May 26, 1959. They were together for 58 years until Herb’s death in 2017.
Through the years Sue was a volunteer for Mobile Meals, as well as being a cook for the after school program at Westminster Presbyterian Church. She was a fantastic cook, so those kids were very lucky. She was a member of the Ruth Women’s Ministry Circle at Westminster, a member of the Revidere Book Review Club, and a member of the Soon-Aires Club, where she was a Past President from 1978 – 1980.
Sue was an avid gardener with a green thumb and enjoyed working in her yard. She could often be seen making her landscape a beautiful green space for all to enjoy. Sue was a proverbial “social butterfly” and never met a stranger. If she met you, she would know everything about you and your family within minutes.
Sue’s greatest joy in life was her family. She cherished the many trips and family reunions with all her family and friends around her, keeping up with everyone’s lives, and events, making sure she knew all that was going on. She loved her dog Maxx and her grand dog, Gretka.
Sue was preceded in death by her parents, her son Gregory Randall Seay, and her husband Herbert L. Seay. She leaves behind her son Steve Seay and daughter in law Kathy Seay, grandson Jason Seay and his wife Nichole Seay, great grandchildren Jacob Seay and Faith Seay, and brother James Sutherland and his wife Peggy Sutherland.
The family will receive friends from 3:00 until 5:00 pm Sunday, June 21st at Vondel Smith funeral home located at 13125 N. MacArthur Blvd. Funeral services will be on Tuesday, June 23 at 1:00 pm, also at Vondel Smith.
The family would like to thank the staff at Legend at Council Rd, as well as the staff at Valir Hospice for their wonderful and compassionate care shown to Sue and her family. Special thanks, to Sharece, Lisa, DJ, and James, who made these past several months so much easier for Sue.
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  • Visitation

    Sunday, June 21st, 2020 | 3:00pm - 5:00pm
    Sunday, June 21st, 2020 3:00pm - 5:00pm
    Vondel Smith & Son Mortuary North
    13125 N. MacArthur
    Oklahoma City, OK 73142
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  • Funeral Service

    Tuesday, June 23rd, 2020 | 1:00pm
    Tuesday, June 23rd, 2020 1:00pm
    Vondel L. Smith Mortuary - North Colonial Chapel
    13125 N. MacArthur Blvd
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    Glenn Dunn
  • Interment

    Tuesday, June 23rd, 2020 |
    Tuesday, June 23rd, 2020
    Resurrection Memorial Cemetery
    7800 NW Expressway
    Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 73132
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Carrie Booher

Posted at 01:13pm
It's hard to describe the impact that Sue Seay had on my family's life. A year or two after my family moved to Bethany, OK, Sue and Herb built a house right next door to ours. I was eight or nine years old at the time and was enchanted by Sue (Mrs Seay to us kids at the time). She was one of the happiest people in our neighborhood. She was a good friend and confidante to my parents who were raising four children in the wild and crazy 70s. Sue's kitchen sink looked out on the cul de sac we all played in and she saw everything that went on and kept my mother up to speed. She was a good and cherished friend to my parents for as long as they knew her (a long, long time). It's difficult to imagine this world without Herb and Sue, and I just want to say that it was a better world for me, my brothers and sister and parents because of them.

The Waddells Posted at 02:26pm

Well said, Carrie! Ditto from the Waddell family.

Pam Gann

Posted at 09:53am
Sue, my sweet friend will always be in my heart. She will be missed so much. My deepest sympathy goes out to her family.
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